Essays

A collection of reflective essays on identity, resilience, culture and the quiet moments that shape our lives.

New essay published every Sunday.

Whatever Happened to the Phone Call?

A reflection on phone calls, voice notes and why hearing someone’s voice still matters in a world full of messages.

Whatever Happened to the Phone Call?

Murder on the Allotment Has More Growing Beneath the Surface

A review of Murder on the Allotment, a funny and moving musical about prejudice, belonging and unexpected human connection. A small musical with some very big things to say. Kay reflects on Murder on the Allotment, a funny, provocative and unexpecte

Murder on the Allotment Has More Growing Beneath the Surface

When Did an Ordinary Life Become Something We Needed to Fix?

A reflection on modern life, constant self-improvement and why an ordinary, uneventful day might be the luxury we miss most.

When Did an Ordinary Life Become Something We Needed to Fix?

Stephen Graham and the Face That Says Everything

A reflection on Stephen Graham, British acting, authenticity and the quiet power of performances that feel completely human.

Stephen Graham and the Face That Says Everything

Topics explored here include identity, grief, healing,

self-worth, resilience and the quiet work of personal growth.